Hi Gillian, I love the idea of choice and am embracing it and the freedom it gives me but my husband who is thin and has never had to lose weight has very restrictive ideas about how one should go about losing weight. They include not eating certain foods, ordering the healthier option when we go out to eat or not eating all the food that is served. As a results, when I do want to eat a food he would deem “not a good choice for someone who wants to lose weight” I end up eating it in private. I want complete and total freedom but not sure how to bring this up with him or how to handle this in general. As a kid I was a sneak eater because I was always the weight-loss project in my family and I want this habit of eating in private/sneak eating to be gone. Thank you!