Thanks. I can see logically that bad choices with dreadful outcomes are still choices I’m free to make. I don’t want to deny reality.
But I don’t actually see how I was going down a strange and unproductive line of thinking, sorry.
I’ll have to re-read what you say and maybe put it aside to a later time. Or maybe I wasn’t clear, and made confusion.
But I hear what you say about the ‘real problem’.
Thanks very much.